We will find ourselves one day.

Just thought I’d like to give some advice.

(I know, not all boys are horrible, this only applies to the idiots. I’ve heard this problem being talked about so much recently, and it’s something I really want to give my opinion on.) 

Girls, if a boy treats you like shit, you don’t always have to leave him. I know people may tell you too, but as Myth-busters has proven, you can polish a turd. Try to beat him at his own game. If there is anything boys don’t like, it’s rejection and neglect. Ironic, right? I have a theory that’s why they can often neglect girls, and it works doesn’t it? When he neglects you or treats you like feces, don’t you find you always text/message him or come running to him? Don’t give him the satisfaction girls, seriously. It makes you look like you can’t live without him, and boys like that, but aren’t attracted to that - if you see what I mean.

Try to beat him at his own game. And don’t text him saying, “This is my last message..” etc. Don’t let him know. If he storms off in a pissy, just stand your ground. Say nothing. Wait for him to come to you. If he doesn’t, then he’s going to be single for a very long time and you’ve kept your dignity.

I understand, all of these things are easier said than done, because after all you are playing with psychology and going against your gut feeling and even human nature. I really do understand, but think about how much you love and want him, if you want him, you need to treat yourself better in order to make him want you.

Take care.